Anyone who loves great gay sex knows how important a good lube is to make things go smoothly! Great anal sex comes from a combination of a partner who understands what you need and like and a great lube to make your gay sex dreams become reality. Gay Escorts are great advocates of using a lot of lube, but the lubes you now buy are quite a modern invention.

There are a huge array of lubes on the market today to suit every types of needs, flavoured lubes and lubes that include a tingling sensation are just some of the novelty lubes that we know and love. Lube has been used throughout history to aid great gay sex so we thought we would have a look at what has been used over time to let things slide in and out just the way we want them to.

An array of natural substances has been used over time as lube here are some of the more interesting ones:

Olive oil as a Lube

The classical Greeks loved sex, it can be seen in everything from their art to their plays and the writings of the time and they were very open about gay sex and anal sex meaning they had to find a suitable lube to help them along in their desires. Olive oil was easily available to the ancient Greeks so was used frequently in the sex that they had. The earliest reference we have for using Olive oil as a lubricant is as early as 350 BC. They also interestingly created the dildo which was made from leather and suggested to be used with, yes you guessed it, olive oil for easy insertion!

Seaweed as a Lube

Perhaps not the most common of substances to think of when you are looking for a great way to have that nice hard cock up your ass, but seaweed was used as standard for a long time. China, Japan and places like Korea have evidence that seaweed was boiled down into a slippery substance throughout their history.

Yams as a Lube

Just like the ancient Greeks, the Japanese were very open about gay sex and anal sex in particular so it is no wonder that they looked for everyday substances to aid their anal poundings! The Edo period in Japan (1603-1868) notes that they used a substance made from grated Chinese yams, which made a sticky slimy substance perfect as a lubricant.

Clove Oil as a Lube

Dildo’s were present in ancient Japan and so there are many references to men having anal sex or using dildos with clove oil as their lubricant of choice. Probably chosen as it also has pain killing properties along with muscle relaxing properties that make up for the more pungent smell when compared with other types of oils. Today clove oil is still an ingredient in many modern lubricants.

Saliva as a Lube

Before there was anything else to use as a lubricant there was saliva! The oldest, most affordable, more readily available at a moment’s notice lube will always be saliva. Not as slippery as other substances but still useful either as a way to kiss, lick and arouse your partner and as a last resort if you have run out of everything else!

Gay men often love to see a hunky man playing sports, so it is no wonder that a sports gear fetish has grown in popularity over the years. Whether it is checking out sexy men in the gym, watching hunky rugby players at a game, or watching elite sportsmen on TV, there can be no doubt that these fit, lean, athletic men are a joy to look at! Sports Gear Gay Fetish

If you want to enjoy having sex with a sexy sporty man, then remember to let your gay escort know that you love a sporty guy and he can wear the appropriate clothing for your date. Whether it is just the clothing that turns you on or you like your guy to come hot and sweaty after playing his favourite sport, or after a workout at the gym, gay escorts are more than happy to accommodate your fantsy!

The sports gear fetish is a rising trend in the UK, but it is even more popular with our European cousins in Germany and France. While sports fetish events can be found in the UK, they are in abundance in these European countries and we look forward to more of these events making their way to our shores.

Links with Other Gay Fetishes

As so often happens with fetishes there is a crossover with other types of gay fetishes. The sports fetish can include men who simply love the athletic look and the clothes that go with that, it can also encompass the chav fetish as sportswear is a huge part of that look. In addition, it can also include those who have a foot or trainer fetish as the sweaty aspect of a sportsman really gets them horny, and it can also include those who have a jock or muscle fetish as those wearing the sporty gear often are ripped!

Male Masculinity and Sportswear

A man who is into sports is often a very masculine man, a man who loves to work out at the gym and then get down and dirty with his team mates on the sports field. It can also encompass those who love to be with a winner, a sports celebrity or just someone who likes to be competitive, these men are so very attractive and getting them into bed is a fantasy for many men.

Clothing Expectations

As everyone likes something different there are no hard and fast rules about which sportswear is appropriate. Some men like to see footballing wear, some like to see cyclist in their tight shorts, some like wrestlers in their outfits and some just like to see a hot sweaty guy from the gym. As there are no preconceptions you can ask your gay escort for exactly the look you want, and they can make your sportwear fantasy a reality wherever and whenever you want.

Gay Escorts and Sportswear

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If you have ever fantasied about being a pet to your master’s slave and being petted and treated as such then you are probably fantasising about the fetish called petplay. Becoming more and more popular as men are exploring this more unusual form of BDSM role play, spending time being a pet for your gay escort has never been more fun!

What is Pet Play?

We know that petplay is becoming more and more popular because the sex toy makers are making toys and equipment specifically for this type of fun BDSM fetish. Pet tail but plugs are available at many mainstream sex shops, ears, noses leads, leashes, collars and even kinky pet food dishes are now all making an appearance in the mainstream stores. Creating a new persona or a pet persona that you inhabit while you indulge in naughty sex is one of the great appeals of pet play. It takes you out of yourself completely and puts you at the mercy of you ‘owners’ whims very like a master and slave environment.

The pet play can either be cutsie, kittens or bunnies, or can be more robust and playful with dogs or even horses! Full on pet costumes can be worn, masks and other headgear is common, or just the imagination is needed to have a whole lot of fun in this quirky fetish. Being led around on a lead is nothing new to those who love BDSM and taking on the persona of a pet just adds a little more interaction into the experience.

For some pet play can link into their more primal urges being wild animals, but for others domestic bliss is being taken care of by a sympathetic owner who treats and rewards for good behaviour and punishes for bad.

BDSM Elements

The pet will often be the sub of the role play with the dom playing the owner and there are a lot of similarities between regular BDSM and pet play. Giving yourself up completely to the control of someone else is an important part of the dynamic of pet play, as is freedom being curtailed and being told when you can eat, sleep, go to the bathroom and other independent actions. While it can often be soft and fluffy it can also include elements of literal horseplay – being whipped as a horse or made to march around and then perhaps your owner wants to ride you!

Whatever pet part you want to play this is a fun fetish that a gay escort can let you explore to its fullest conclusion.

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Location of your Gay Escort

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Your Kind of Gay Escort

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Your Type of Gay Escort

The great thing about using the biggest and best gay escort directory is that you get to choose from a huge range of guys who between them are into just about every type of sexual fetish or gay sexual kink. From giving you the best gay massage of your life, to BDSM, from foot fetishes to spanking, from leather or latex lovers to the full romantic boyfriend experience you will be able to find the gay escort you are looking for on sleepyboy.com

Searching for your Gay Escort

Sleepyboy.com has the largest selection of gay escorts anywhere, so searching for your perfect man can take some time. Now, it is a pretty nice thing to look through all the sexy men available, but you can take a short cut and use the search options available. Search by location first, so that you know your favourite guy is in your vicinity, then if you have a specific request, fetish or like then make that part of your search before taking a look through the profiles for the one that gets you hard just by looking at him.

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We love TV, and Netflix and chill has become synonymous with a great night in. For those of us who love snuggling on the sofa with a sexy man here are some good gay tv shows you could be watching right now – just be sure to be watching them with the gorgeous gay escort of your dreams for the ultimate boyfriend experience.

Years & Years

The new BBC drama by Russell T. Davies (of Doctor Who) is currently playing weekly on the BBC and the latest episodes can be watched via the IPlayer. Davies, who has made some great LGBT shows in the past – think Queer as Folk, Tofu and Banana, follows the lives on one family over 15 years including the gay relationship of sexy actor Russel Tovey. Defiantly worth a watch.

The Politician

Did you love American Horror Story, Glee or Pose? Then check out this new Netflix show from the same creators. High School drama as the lead actor works through the choppy political waters of high school so he can become student body president – before of course becoming President of the USA and then who knows, the world? Sassy, sexy series also starring Gwyneth Paltrow!

Drag Race UK

Expected to air later this year on BBC Three, Ru Paul is coming for a UK audience. Hosting the best of the best in UK Drag Acts and putting them through their paces in this incredibly popular American Show, the British version should be a great spectacle and a great watch especially if Graham Norton is joining Ru to host.

American Crime Story: The Assassination of Gianni Versace

Now available on Netflix, this follows the story surrounding the death of legendary gay fashion designer Gianni Versace. A compelling watch, well written, acted and produced with the lead actor Darren Criss (playing the murderer Andrew Cunanan) winning an Emmy for the performance. Excellent TV!

Elite

This is a Spanish drama featuring three working class teens who are sent to a boarding school for the elite after their school was destroyed. Let gay love, teen angst and school drama and politics commence in this Netflix show.

Grace and Frankie

With so much TV, especially LGBTQ TV, focussing on the lives of the young, this is a great Netflix show featuring excellent older actors and their stories. Focussing on two women who bond as friends after their husbands leave them for each other! Great performances and storytelling make this a good watch on a rainy Sunday afternoon.

Sense8

Explicit sex scenes, and horny orgies make this a great watch, the story is not bad either! Eight individuals born on the same day who for some reason can access each other’s thoughts and actions work together to try and work out why this is so.

Star Trek Discovery

This reboot of classic Sci-Fi brand Star Trek is going where no Star Trek has gone before! The first gay couple in leading roles on the show has gone down a storm with the well written relationship between characters Lt. Paul Stamets (Anthony Rapp) and Dr Hugh Culber (Wilson Cruz) they are a likable and watchable gay couple navigating their relationship through space!

Leather is quite a classic fetish, and there are very few people who even if they don’t consider it a fetish, they don’t dislike it and can play along with those that do making it a very gay sex friendly fetish to have.

Why Gay Men Love Leather

Strong, tactile and stylish, with leather what is not to love? Men have been attracted to the sight, smell and touch of leather since it has been worn. It is a common and much-loved gay sexual fetish and it is not hard to understand why.

Gay Leather History

London in the 50’s seems to be the start of the Gay Leather clubs and events that you can still find today, spreading throughout the UK in the 70’s these fan clubs created their own scene around their favourite fetish – leather. Rejecting the ‘of the time’ stereotyped gay man as effeminate, these men wanted to demonstrate how masculine they were, and leather was the perfect vehicle to do it in. Reclaiming a masculine identity, the link with BDSM, the delicious smell, look and feel of leather and the rugged biker culture that evolved, it was no wonder leather clubs went from strength to strength.

Leather Fetish Options

Leather can be a fetish all by itself or it can be linked into other gay sex fetishes or role plays. If you just love the leather for itself then probably the more leather the better. Sexy leather pants, leather jackets, even leather cushions and bedsheets are all possible and popular when you have a leather fetish. Perhaps your leather fetish is part of a wider BDSM fetish where you want to be dominated by a leather clad master, or a gang or horny bikers gangbang you or you are dominating a chunky masculine leather clad sexy man. Whatever your fetish or needs a gay escort can fulfil them all.

Gay Escorts and Leather Fetish

If you have a leather fetish the best way to have the most fun with it is by spending time with a gay escort who can really let you indulge in your fetish, however far you want it to go. Just imagine the many of your dreams, but clad in leather and willing to fulfil your every gay sex fantasy – well you can stop imagining it and simply live it by finding your favourite gay escort on sleepyboy.com

You may also like to choose some leather implements, perhaps a leather whip, leather masks, leather riding crop or a leather flogger, all waiting to be used in your kinky leather fantasy.

Top to toe in leather ready for a night out at a sexy club, or a steamy BDSM night in or even a night of naughty role play, whatever your leather fetish dreams are, let them loose and free with a gay escort who will be more than happy to make those dreams into reality and then great memories – until the next time!

There are many misconceptions about gay sex, much of it around how much sex is ‘normal’ and how much everyone else is actually getting. Many men love having sex, and I mean really love it, want to have as much of it as they can possibly get and who can really blame them when it feels so good. So, when is how much too much and how can you feel confident and happy with the amount of gay sex you are having.

How Much Gay Sex are you Having?

Being a sex addict and simply loving gay sex are two very different things so how can you decide if you are having too much sex? If you spend a lot of time with the horny and handsome gay escorts on www.sleepyboy.com or end up in bed with different strangers on a regular basis then you may be doing some reflecting on your own sexual behaviours. Re-centring how we approach gay sex, whom we have it with and how often we have it is not a bad thing to do, but equally having a healthy and enjoyable gay sex life is not something that should be shied away from.

What is a Sex Addict

The WHO (World Health Organisation) advise that they don’t use the term ‘Sex addiction’ as there is not enough clinical evidence that sex or porn is addictive. They do recognise something called compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder’ which has a very strict definition where one’s life is very out of balance and control before they can be defined as suffering from this disorder. Often what society calls sex addiction is simply a judgment that you re having more sex than most other people, this is also judged from a hetro-normal, sex-negative point of view. So, what you may feel is too much sex is simply a feeling of being different from what society says you should be – and we all know how right society is about everything!

So, if you are not a sex addict then how much sex is appropriate for you. The answer to that question is simply as much as you want to fit into your life, sex that gives balance to your life and where you enjoy it and it doesn’t take over or become more dominant than other parts of your life. That is not too say that you don’t have a problem, but often the sex is a symptom and not a cause.

Lots of Gay Sex is Great Sex

If you enjoy gay sex and you want it every day – why not! If you are not in a relationship, then this may mean spending time with gay escorts or hooking up with guys in bars etc. As the latter can be time consuming and you want a great experience then hiring a gay escort is the easiest and most satisfying way to have all the gay sex you want, ensure it is great gay sex and then go on with the rest of your day feeling amazing.

Loving gay sex does not make you a sex addict, find the right balance in your life for gay sex and you will enjoy it even more, to find amazing gay escorts to make this happen with visit www.sleepyboy.com